yo 女兒, not sure if you will ever see this, but ya, still going to write wat i think here.
yes, i know wat u are going thru now, but as you know, i can't express like ur grandma, but pls remember that i will always be there for you. You will always have my support.
I cannot comfort you like shao, i cannot cry with you like shao, but you can still talk to me if you want to. You know you got 特權？ like i only allow you to hug me so far?? haha, ur grandma will 吃醋 one ok..
I'm sure you have the capability and ability to lead. Mama will be proud of you :]